The York and greater Harrisburg soccer communities are mourning the loss of Ryan Bair, a longtime coed soccer referee and beloved figure whose integrity, kindness, and passion for the game left an enduring impact on players, coaches, and fellow officials alike. Ryan passed away after a courageous battle with a brain tumor, surrounded by his loving family.
Ryan’s journey began in June, when a sudden diagnosis led to surgery and months of treatments. Despite his immense strength and determination, he passed away peacefully, leaving behind a legacy defined by service, sportsmanship, and love for his community.
For years, Ryan was a familiar face on the fields of the Harrisburg Area Women’s Soccer League (HAWSL), where he officiated games with fairness, professionalism, and an unmistakable sense of joy. Known for his calm demeanor and steady leadership, Ryan earned the respect of players across all levels — not just for his refereeing skills, but for the genuine kindness and positivity he brought to every match.
“Ryan wasn’t just a referee — he was part of our family,” said one HAWSL representative. “He always had a smile, a kind word, and a love for the game that made every weekend better. His loss is deeply felt by all of us.”
Beyond the field, Ryan was a devoted husband and father, whose family was the heart of his world. He is survived by his wife, Tesha, and their children, who have expressed gratitude for the overwhelming outpouring of love and support during this difficult time.
To assist the family with medical expenses and future educational costs, friends and members of the soccer community have organized a GoFundMe campaign, reflecting just how many lives Ryan touched through his generosity and spirit.
Those who knew Ryan describe him as the embodiment of integrity and compassion — a man who approached life, family, and sport with humility and purpose. Whether refereeing under the bright lights or sharing laughs with friends on the sidelines, Ryan had a gift for bringing people together and making them feel valued.
His passing leaves a void not only in the soccer community but in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him. Still, his influence — on the field and beyond — will continue to resonate for years to come.
Ryan Bair will be remembered as more than an official — he was a mentor, a friend, and a true ambassador for the spirit of the game. His dedication, kindness, and unwavering love for his family and community will remain his lasting legacy.